Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters--And How to Get It

***WINNER, 2019 CONSUMER BOOK OF THE YEAR AWARD & 2021 MEDIA AWARD***
Awards given by major sexuality organizations to recognize the best book for promoting sexual health. First given by the Society for Sex Therapy and Research & second by the Society for the Advancement of Sexual Health.
**Studies published in scientific journals show that women who read this book orgasm more, have more arousal & less pain, improve their body image, and become more sexually satisfied. Men learn how to pleasure women and become better sexual communicators.**

We've been thinking about sex all wrong. Mainstream media, movies, and porn have taught us that sex = penis + vagina, and everything else is just secondary. Standard penetration is how men most reliably achieve orgasm. The problem is, women don't orgasm this way. We've separated our most reliable route to orgasm--clitoral stimulation--from how we feel we should orgasm--penetration. As a result, we've created a pleasure gap between women and men:


50% of 18-35-year-old women say they have trouble reaching orgasm with a partner